Christmas is all about presents. Full stop. In the true meaning of Christmas, remembering how God gave us his son as a present in an incredibly grand gesture to show how much he loves us, millions of people also exchange presents on Christmas day. What amuses me is how so many people don't count themselves as religious and would admit to only being engrossed by the festivities and commercialism of the Christmas season, and yet, they feel the need to try to imitate what God did in giving that hugely extravagant present.Apparently people have very little money these days. Unemployment, price hikes etc etc mean that people don't have the capacity anymore to be overly generous and flamboyant with Christmas gifts. And yet, the apparent need is there for some people to ignore any sensibility and still adorn their loved ones with presents that, to my mind, are quite unnecessary and far too extravagant. Is it because they feel that it's customary?That it's expected? That if they spend less they'll look mean? That their partner will think they love them less because they didn't spend a huge amount of money on their gift? Or, perhaps it's simply the genuine desire to give to their dearest the very best because that's what they believe they deserve.
I often draw the conclusion that my own opinions and attitudes are very unique. I see situations happen and raise my eyebrows in disbelief and am puzzled by actions or reactions of people and then realise that infact to anyone else, everything is quite normal. I'm not impressed by money or extravagance and while I can see an attraction in these things, it still amazes me that some people are willing to accept gifts that cost small fortunes and even in some cases expect this. Personally, I'm moved to tears when somebody gives me a pretty pebble they found on a beach or when people take the time to do something for me or if someone cares enough to put special effort into creating something for me. It's the little things that carry meaning that, for me, are the grandest gestures. A 200 euro necklace will be beautiful and yes, delightful to receive, but unnecessary..even more thought and love could be put into a necklace which will be just as beautiful and cost only 20 euro.
I am not in any way putting down those who have hard-earned money and choose to spend it on those they love, of course that's a flattering and lovely thing. I just wonder if at times people get a little too caught up in thinking that love is measured in money.
At the end of the day though, no matter how GRAND or grand the gift itself is, it's the sentiment behind it that measures the love that goes with it. Christmas is all about presents, but presents are all about love. Love comes in massive packages, but I think it's important to remember that it also comes in teency ones, that cost nothing*
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